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Do you know that it is a normal process to grow and develop certain attitudes and habits by association? You should recognize this in yourself. It happens to all of us no matter what we look like, what we may own or where we live. It is common human development patterns at work in our lives.

You are not alone in all those negative thoughts and feelings that occur in your life because of other individuals or elements of the universal world we live in. We all experience that small nagging voice within that expresses disapproval of ourselves because of issues outside of us, those that we have no control over. As we grow we pick up bits and parts from the words and actions of others as well as the physical and metaphysical elements of the world we live in.

For instance, there are particular scents, tastes, images and inner voices and feelings that we all experience as neutral, positive or negative. These will vary in each of us and the things that are brought forth by their presence and timing in our lives. Some individuals there will experience positive influences and others it may be negative.

It is normal that all humans endure some type of outside conditioning which influences their inner workings of thoughts and actions. This is especially true of berating the self and drawing negative vibrations and influences which make what we do not want to become our reality.

The most influential means of bringing solutions into the various scenarios of our lives is by affirming a positive outlook and intent in order to actually create the world we want to live in while following our true purpose in life.

You can develop an acceptance of these things and bring whole alignment to your higher perspective and inner core by replacing the negative with the positive. You enable yourself to subtly change anything and everything about yourself, whether you want to lose weight, stop smoking, gain wisdom, reduce fear and nervousness or succeed in business.

NLP is most beneficial for aiding you in acceptance of the way things are and work past them by replacing negative thoughts and deeds with those thoughts and deeds which are most desirable by using various techniques such as anchoring positive emotions. It is also helpful for dealing with all those emotional, spiritual and physical concerns of childhood that may have been disturbing. These negative occurrences do influence us all even to death, unless we learn to progressively deal with them until they are acceptable as part of our growth pattern while in this state of being.

This process begins by recognizing that we are not alone when we replay all those negative nagging thoughts that are byproducts of someone or something outside ourselves that influence us. When it comes to powerful personal growth tools NLP has proved to be most beneficial for many individuals who are now experiencing a better sense of self worth and self confidence which is expressed by living the lifestyle they choose while following their true purpose in life.

When you are sick and tired of hearing the same old recordings of your mind and want to work to make the improvements that your inner being knows and you are considering what will make a difference for you, consider that NLP is a powerful personal growth tool.

Tags:
Change,
Personal Growth,
Self Help and Motivational,
Therapy

Source: Therapy

Sometimes we can get caught up in the day to day monotony of making a living - going through the motions each day while our relationships and our dreams, those things that give our lives true meaning, end up getting forgotten about, ignored, and pushed to the back burner. In this mode of living, time can really seem like our enemy - sometimes before we know it, years have passed us by - and we say “Is this all there is?”

The solution to this is to live consciously and get ourselves off autopilot. This article talks about becoming conscious and how we can put our foot down and get our lives back when we find that we’ve been off track.

Open Up to Your Possibilities

Source: Expand Yourself

A woman once decided to buy a lottery ticket with the last $1 that she had in her purse. And instead of simply going up to the machine, putting in her dollar and scratching off the ticket, she started by jumping up and down and yelling about how great it was that she won. She hadn’t bought the ticket and still celebrated her win. Sure, she looked like a fool to everyone else, but when she later bought a ticket and won $50, she realized that she was onto something. She was building an air of success around her.

Create positive energy

By celebrating your success before you actually have it, you are changing the energy that is around you. Adding more positive feelings to your life will draw in positive things toward you. So, by celebrating something that you want to happen, you are encouraging it to happen. And while you might not get positive results each time you do this, you will find that good things do happen to those who are grateful and excited to have them.

How you can celebrate now:

1. Buy the size clothes you want to wear when you lose weight
2. Keep a journal about how great your life is now that you’ve achieved a certain goal (even if you haven’t done it yet)
3. Put up a sign of the exercise goals you want to reach with a note saying that you’re about to go beyond these goals

You need to find ways to bring in the energy of possibility into your dreams and your goals. Whether this means calling your friends and telling them that you ARE doing something or if it means that you keep a blog online of the way your life has changed since achieving a certain goal (even when you haven’t yet), you need to shift your mind into a ‘Yes I can‘ mode. And celebrating before you get started is more fun than waiting anyway.

Have a most outstanding day

Sean Rasmussen
Success Communicator
SeanRasmussen.com © 2004 - 2008

Source: lifestyle

The good things in life do not create happiness.  The good things in life arise from happiness.  If you wish to be happy, then be happy.

It really is as simple as that.  There’s no need to wait until you acquire this or achieve that. If you constantly place conditions on happiness, you’ll prevent yourself from experiencing it.  Go ahead and be happy now, today, this very moment.

Be happy for no reason at all, and you will find that you’re more effective, more productive, more creative and more fulfilled.

Indeed, happiness is a powerful state of mind that is available to you when you allow it to be.  The best reason to be happy is because you can.

Being genuinely happy is a powerful way to express your confidence and your expectation that positive things will happen.  And when you confidently expect the best, that’s precisely what you get.

Go ahead and be happy!

Ruth

Tags: confidence, expectation, happiness

Have you ever came up with a great idea and told someone else about it?  What you usually hear is, if I was you, I wouldn’t do that or I don’t think you should try that, blah, blah, blah!

Unfortunately, most people are living their lives based on what others think or on what someone else wants them to do.

I started practicing universal principles at a fairly young age, because I realized that most of my experience up to that point was based on what others thought and I was attracting based on what they wanted for me.

No matter what, there will still be friends, family etc. that offer their opinions whether you want them or not. In their experience, they are perfectly comfortable with where you are. And I honestly think that most people are acting from their highest sense of love.

Sometimes moving forward in life makes certain people feel that you won’t be part of their life anymore.  And sometimes they are just acting from unresolved fear.

But remember this:

Whatever the reasons are for the way people may be relating to you, you must stick to the plan!

I do think it’s important to make loved ones feel comfortable about what you are doing.  If you can, include them in some of your plans.

If you’ve decided on a business you wanted to start, or pursing that long forgotten hobby, you must stay focused because you attract what you think about most, good or bad.

You can stick to the plan by practicing these simple techniques.

1. Keep your mind so focused on what you want, that there’s no room to focus on what others are thinking about you. Be specific.

2. Visualize your desire in as much detail as possible.

3. When doubt moves in, immediately change your thoughts to something positive.

4. Spend some quiet time alone meditating.

5. Don’t forget to do something that makes you feel good.  This really raises your energy and make manifesting easier.

Everyone views the world differently and it’s up to you to create your own reality.  Don’t get me wrong, learning from others has tremendous value.  I’ve learned some of life’s greatest lessons from others.  And sometimes the opinions of others may or may not be valid, but I think you’ll know the difference.  The ultimate decision is still up to you.

Decide now what you should hold on to or let go of.  You’re the best guide in your life.

Stick to the plan and remember:

Your inner world will always reflect your outer world.

Ruth

Tags: self growth, universal principles, universal laws

Sometimes, when the world just seems too heavy, you look around and find people who continue to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then you wonder, How come they always seem so happy?  How come they still can manage to laugh and play despite a busy stressful life? 

So, how does one become genuinely happy?

The first step is to love yourself.  Loving yourself means to accept who you truly are. 

Genuine happiness means being content and grateful in the moment.  When you are content with who you are and what you now have, that opens the door for more joy, peace and happiness.

Start looking within and stop waiting for things to be perfect before you can be happy.  If you can be grateful right now, you will find more peace, joy and happiness than you imagined.  If you look for external circumstances to make you feel joy, you will never be able to find genuine happiness.

I believe that life is about living on purpose.  You decide what kind of life you want…whether you want to feel joy or sadness.  It’s all up to you.  There are so many people waiting to have more money, waiting to get married, and whole list of other stuff before they can be happy.

Everyone has their own definition of happiness, but I can tell you that genuine happiness isn’t about driving the hottest car, nor getting the employee of the year award, earning the highest pay, or beating the sales quota.  Sometimes, the most sought after prizes in life doesn’t always go to the fastest, the strongest, the bravest or the smartest.  In my experience, I found that the prize usually goes to the person with a great personality bubbling over with joy.

You don’t have to have the best of everything in this world. Its about doing and making the best out of every single thing right now. When you learn to accept and love yourself, you start to feel that sense of peace and joy.  For as long as you love and know how to love, you will receive love and happiness ten folds back.

Throw me that same question “how to become genuinely happy?”  I’ll refer you to this quote- “Most of us know that laughter is the best medicine to life’s aches and pain. But most of us don’t know that the best kind of laughter is laughter over self.

Ruth

Tags: genuine happiness, peace, joy, finding happiness

One of the most difficult questions to answer in life is what am I doing here on earth?

What exactly is the purpose of my life?  The biggest problem with this question is that only you can answer it.

So, you’re wondering, how do you start?

You already have the answer to this question and many more already inside of you. You already have a lot of power and inner strength, that you’re not aware of yet.

Do you feel there is something missing in your life and you really want to discover what it is? The problem is how?  Well, the answer is simple. Change your thinking so you can unleash the power of your mind.

Does that sound hard to you?  It’s not, many people are already doing it with the Super Manifestor Gold techniques and they are living life to its fullest.

I received a complimentary copy of Super Manifestor Gold.  I’ve always tried to deliver the best products possible to my readers, and I’ve gotta tell you that after going through the materials in Super Manifestor Gold, it is by far one of the best products I’ve come across to help you manifest everything you thought possible, but just didn’t know how.

Here’s a list of some of the things you will discover:

• A quick start guide to get you off on the right foot
• 8 Habits Manifesting Routine that will help you keep your eye on the BIG picture
• How To Raise Your Manifesting Vibration (my favorite)
• Time-tested thoughts and actions that will spark a spiritual awakening in your life
• 300+ enlightening affirmations that will reprogram your mind, body and your life for success
• Enlightening articles about manifesting and enlightenment, from ancient wisdom and new-thought research and studies

You’ll also receive guided manifestation meditations to help you manifest even faster:

• Heal and empower your relationship with money
• Uncover your natural financial wisdom and how to receive direct guidance on manifesting prosperity
• Reprogram your mind with a powerful set of 38 money mantras to dramatically boost your ability to attract wealth
• Deepen your ability to trust yourself and the Universe, and connect with your natural ability to manifest
• Go on a journey that takes you beyond the mind and ego and experience Divine Presence and deep inner peace

Once you’ve mastered these techniques, you’ll be able to:

• Discover your mission in life
• Live a life that’s fulfilled and happy
• Relieve stress and relax more easily
• Concentrate with total focus and clarity
• Find lasting inner peace
• Make your relationships more fulfilling and meaningful
• Program your mind to manifest your goals faster and easier

Super Manifestor Gold will give you the ability that allows you to take control of your mind, the most powerful force on earth.

In taking conscious control, you will have the key that opens up every possibility in your life!

I simply can’t say enough about Super Manifestor Gold and how much you will benefit after practicing the techniques and strategies included in this powerful course.
 
Whether you looking to create better health, more money or manifest a new car, Super Manifestor Gold will help you to start manifesting the things you always thought possible, but didn’t know how.

Tags: Super Manifestor Gold, Meditation, Manifesting

If you haven’t heard of Mind Movies yet, you could be missing out on something special.  You get to create your ideal life in a movie.  You make your own Mind Movies of things you want to accomplish.  They even show you where to get great pictures from on the internet to make your movies. 

It’s a great way to visualize what you want and get you in that feel good place making it easier to manifest your desires faster.  Check out this Mind Movie…

Gain instant and unlimited access to the Mind Movies members area where you’ll get the step-by-step instructions, the location to find the best pictures on the internet, and all the resources to produce your Mind Movie faster than you ever dreamed possible.

Enjoy!

Ruth

Tags: Movie Movies, Ryan Higgins

There are certain moments in life when we feel helpless and disoriented and believe we could use some type of self improvement or advice in order to figure out how to proceed.

The answer is never simple.  However, there is one piece of advice that can be of great help and employed regularly will have great results.

It is meditation and it has been used for centuries in certain rituals and by ancients civilizations.  Even in old and famous books, like the Bible, people were invited to meditate, in order to gain control over their lives.

How do we proceed when meditating?

First of all, get away from any source of distraction.  It’s hard to analyze your deepest feelings and thoughts while meditating and watch a movie at the same time.

Secondly, we might want to ask questions that will help us better determine who we really are and what we want.  The questions should relate to everyday aspects.

• What do I like doing?  
• What made me most proud of myself during my life?
• What is it that I’ve always wanted to do and never found the time?
• What role does money play in my life?
• What is more important for me, my family life or career?
• How much do I depend on others?

Well, you’re starting to get the picture…

If there are certain decisions to be made, let all the questions be related to that issue. If there seems to be confusion and mind chatter when asking the questions, I’ve found that focusing on my breathing usually helps to quite the noise.

When you start to get answers, writing them down is very effective because you seem to get even more answers.  Try to concentrate and to be sincere.  After all, nobody is there to judge us.

Take the time to analyze them thoroughly.  These answers will help determine exactly where we stand and what’s needed for us to take control of our lives.  

Post the list somewhere where you can see it more than once a day, or post it in more than one place.

Step by step, even unwillingly, things will start to change.  Renew the list when feelings of progress occurs.  This is one of the best ways to always be aware what your expectations from life are and be sure to only expect the best.

Take this simple advice, relax and meditate.  Watch the positive answers and results that start to show up. 

Tags: meditation, meditating, meditate

To grow spiritually in a world defined by power, money, and influence seems to be a monumental task for many. Modern conveniences and the web have predisposed us to confine our attention mostly to physical needs and wants. As a result, our concepts of self-worth and self-meaning are muddled.

It’s important to only look inward if we expect to grow spiritually.  Looking closely and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and motivations can be rewarding.  Examining our experiences, the decisions we make, the relationships we have, and the things we engage in will provide useful insights on what is necessary to have a more fulfilling life. 

It takes courage and willingness to seek the truths that lie within us so we can grow spiritually and develop our potential.

Our lives have purpose. This purpose puts all our physical, emotional, and intellectual potentials into use; sustains us during trying times; and gives us something to look forward to—a goal to achieve, a destination to reach.

Recognizing our connection to all things makes us more humble and respectful of people, animals, plants, and things in nature. We have more appreciation for the things around us.  It moves us to go beyond our comfort zone and reach out to other people.

Growth is a journey that should be fun and exciting. We win some, we lose some, but the important thing is that we learn, and from this knowledge, further spiritual growth is made possible even in modern times.

Tags: spiritual growth, spirituality