There are certain moments in life when we feel helpless and disoriented and believe we could use some type of self improvement or advice in order to figure out how to proceed.

The answer is never simple.  However, there is one piece of advice that can be of great help and employed regularly will have great results.

It is meditation and it has been used for centuries in certain rituals and by ancients civilizations.  Even in old and famous books, like the Bible, people were invited to meditate, in order to gain control over their lives.

How do we proceed when meditating?

First of all, get away from any source of distraction.  It’s hard to analyze your deepest feelings and thoughts while meditating and watch a movie at the same time.

Secondly, we might want to ask questions that will help us better determine who we really are and what we want.  The questions should relate to everyday aspects.

• What do I like doing?  
• What made me most proud of myself during my life?
• What is it that I’ve always wanted to do and never found the time?
• What role does money play in my life?
• What is more important for me, my family life or career?
• How much do I depend on others?

Well, you’re starting to get the picture…

If there are certain decisions to be made, let all the questions be related to that issue. If there seems to be confusion and mind chatter when asking the questions, I’ve found that focusing on my breathing usually helps to quite the noise.

When you start to get answers, writing them down is very effective because you seem to get even more answers.  Try to concentrate and to be sincere.  After all, nobody is there to judge us.

Take the time to analyze them thoroughly.  These answers will help determine exactly where we stand and what’s needed for us to take control of our lives.  

Post the list somewhere where you can see it more than once a day, or post it in more than one place.

Step by step, even unwillingly, things will start to change.  Renew the list when feelings of progress occurs.  This is one of the best ways to always be aware what your expectations from life are and be sure to only expect the best.

Take this simple advice, relax and meditate.  Watch the positive answers and results that start to show up. 

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