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		<title>Exercise vs Diet</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:19:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people who follow a diet and exercise regimen often ask what is the more effect solution to weight gain, exercise or diet? Well it is with out argument that the optimal solution would be a balanced combination of both as they do compliment each other. A fat burning diet and exercise are the two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-527" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="lose weight" src="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/lose-weight-150x150.jpg" alt="lose weight" width="150" height="150" />Many people who follow a <a href="http://quick-weightloss-diet.blogspot.com/">diet and exercise</a> regimen often ask what is the more effect solution to weight gain, exercise or diet? Well it is with out argument that the optimal solution would be a balanced combination of both as they do compliment each other. A fat burning diet and exercise are the two essential factors to weight loss. However it is interesting to know which one drives the best results. I attempt to answer this question to see if it is diet or exercise that is the most effective.Weight gain is without a doubt a global epidemic.</div>
<p>Studies have shown that this mainly stems from poor eating habits. After countless tests and experiments from health institutions all over the world, the general consensus is that a quick weight loss diet, or a fat burning diet generally has a greater impact on weight loss than changing your exercise routines. In fact, results have also shown diets are approximately three times more effective than methods of exercise particularly in diabetic diets. This is mainly accredited to the fact that lessening consumption of calories is much easier than burning calories already consumed.</p>
<p>When using a diet, it allows you to focus more on controlling your intake of foods giving you the structure and discipline needed to lose weight. Also maintaining healthy eating habits with a fat burning diet has shown to be much easier than maintaining an exercise regimen. The reason for this is with quick weight loss diet, you are only altering your eating habits while exercise is a new habit in and of its self that must be created in most cases.</p>
<p>The counter that exercise provides according to more recent studies is that those who choose exercise seem to reach their long term goals. Studies have show that participants that used various methods of exercise were shown to maintain their results over a longer period of time than those that have changed their dieting regimens. This leads many to believe that exercise enables one to lose weight and better maintain the results where as a quick weight loss diet has a quicker rate of weight loss but does not maintain the results as effectively as exercise.</p>
<p>In conclusion, it would see that exercise and diet both have distinct advantages or one another. Using a fat burning diet or a method of exercise can do wonders for weight loss. The question of which would be more beneficial would be dependent on the one choosing the workout plan or quick weight loss diet.</p>
<p><strong>About The Author</strong></p>
<p>Allan Beaulieu- Internet Marketer, Assistant Manager at Direct and Online Sales at Universal Online Promotions in New York, NY.</p>
<p>For Help and Advice on how to lose weight fast, click the link to our website: <a href="http://quick-weightloss-diet.blogspot.com/">fast weight loss</a></p>
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		<title>Accelerate Your Learning Powers Using Subliminal Learning</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 16:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Subliminal learning is the use of techniques that allow people to learn even without any conscious effort at all. It does this by exposing one to stimulus they are not or barely aware of  images that flash on the screen for barely perceptible moments, words played over and over again at a volume just above [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001G4PZV8?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B001G4PZV8" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-414" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="subliminal audio cd" src="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/subliminal-audio-cd1.jpg" alt="subliminal audio cd" width="160" height="141" />Subliminal learning</a> is the use of techniques that allow people to learn even without any conscious effort at all. It does this by exposing one to stimulus they are not or barely aware of  images that flash on the screen for barely perceptible moments, words played over and over again at a volume just above the hearing threshold, or other such stimulus. The discovery of such methods has aroused the excitement of many people because of its potential to boost the learning process and make acquiring new skills a lot more painless and effective.</p>
<p>The possibilities are definitely boundless. Just imagine. If this were true, you would be able to learn new things without having to buckle down and do the dirty work. For example, it has been argued that learning a language is theoretically possible using <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001G4PZV8?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B001G4PZV8" target="_blank">subliminal techniques</a>  no need for books, teachers, and other learning implements, except for your subliminal learning equipment. You also won&#8217;t have to lose time to learn tedious language lessons. You could have your subliminal equipment on while you do other stuffs and in some programs even while you sleep.</p>
<p>Some common applications of subliminal learning include new languages, vocabulary skills, music, and even behavior modification programs.</p>
<p>It may seem ridiculous at first, but once you get a good grasp of the theories of learning plus the potential and limitations of subliminal learning &#8211; you will find out that it really isn&#8217;t implausible after all. For example, there are actually things you do every day that you learn even if you don&#8217;t expend any conscious effort to do so.</p>
<p>Ever wondered how a song got stuck in your head even if you hated the song and tried your best not to pay attention to it? Somehow, the meaty chorus of the song finds its way into your subconscious and never leaves, does it?</p>
<p>What about words? Haven&#8217;t you wondered how a certain word came into your vocabulary even though you never remembered trying to memorize the word or use it purposefully? You probably heard the word somewhere maybe at work, or from your friends, or even from the TV or the radio, and suddenly, poof, it&#8217;s made permanent residence in your head &#8211; without your notice.</p>
<p>Now, looking at these examples, people have begun to wonder about the possibilities if we could push the envelope and take advantage of this particular quirk in one&#8217;s learning process to somehow accelerate the rate of learning among students. Thus was born the wonders of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001G4PZV8?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B001G4PZV8" target="_blank">subliminal learning</a>.</p>
<p>Scientists have been digging hard and thorough on the subject of subliminal learning. Although it is theoretically possible to have such techniques do much for accelerated learning, there will always be skeptics who look for empirical proof from scientific studies before even considering subliminal learning. Little by little, these scientists have come to learn more about how we process and store knowledge, and are receiving heartening results from their studies on subliminal learning.</p>
<p>On a small scale, they are convinced that some skills can be learned through <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001G4PZV8?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B001G4PZV8" target="_blank">subliminal learning</a>  especially those that are not high-process data such as patterns, words, numbers, and other easy visual data. Other skills such as languages and mathematics are high-process skills that require full attention and thought when performed. However, learning these skills is still beneficial when learned in conjunction with subliminal learning.</p>
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		<title>How To Use Affirmations Properly</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 14:38:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am, therefore I exist, is a phrase affirming one&#8217;s existence as a being. It may be a simple phrase, but it says everything about the person saying it. In my opinion, it indicates a confidence.
But why do people need affirmation? Why do we need to be affirmed? Is existence relative to one&#8217;s affirmations?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am, therefore I exist, is a phrase affirming one&#8217;s existence as a being. It may be a simple phrase, but it says everything about the person saying it. In my opinion, it indicates a confidence.</p>
<p>But why do people need <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1561708860?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1561708860" target="_blank">affirmation</a>? Why do we need to be affirmed? Is existence relative to one&#8217;s affirmations?</p>
<p>Affirmations are a very powerful technique to empower the subconscious. Once the subconscious is disciplined to believe the affirmation, the latter is converted into a positive action for the conscious mind. Through affirmations, we are empowered to do, to work, and to strive for more things. They allow us to believe in ourselves and to put our thoughts into action.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1561708860?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1561708860" target="_blank">Affirmations</a> can be combination of verbal and visual techniques. Strong affirmations can be very powerful, and can be used by almost anyone to achieve his or her goals and fulfill the desires of the heart. However, the power of an affirmation depends on how strong or weak your feelings are about what you are wanting.</p>
<p>They are merely an assertion made by a person, about something or about a state of being. For example, we can affirm that which we want to attain by stating something like, I now have a good life, being healthy in mind, body, and spirit.</p>
<p>A <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1561708860?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1561708860" target="_blank">strong affirmation</a> should be stated in the present tense to be more effective. An affirmation of I am now a happy person is more effective than an affirmation saying, I am going to become a happy person. Instead of saying, I am not sad, why not make an affirmation saying, I am happy.</p>
<p>An affirmation should be made up of simple but concise words, and it should be short to be more effective. A very long affirmation can work the other way around, instead of creating a positive mindset for a person. A short affirmation can be easily spoken and repeated by a person. It can serve as a mantra that can be repeated over and over again.</p>
<p>To be effective, an affirmation must be repeated. Repetition works and influences the subconscious, which in turn motivates the person into acting out what they are wanting. Writing down the words that one believes in can be very powerful.</p>
<p>However, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1561708860?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1561708860" target="_blank">creating an affirmation</a> alone and repeating them a million times would not make the affirmation a state of mind. The important thing is to live it and to be open-minded enough to do the things that would help the affirmation become a reality. Feeling it and applying it in your life will help in making it a reality.</p>
<p>While affirmations are generally used to make an individual better, they can also be used to boost or confirm another person&#8217;s value. By affirming another person&#8217;s value, you are helping to improve their self-worth also.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1561708860?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=selgrosec-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1561708860" target="_blank">Affirmations</a> are a very simple thing that can make a very big difference in a person&#8217;s life. It can be a great motivator and can make things happen.</p>
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		<title>What is Depression: Some New Light on the Old Blues</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 15:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right now, 20 million Americans are in the midst of an episode of depression.
Some have the incapacitating symptoms of what doctors call major depression. These symptoms usually require professional attention because they are very severe and demoralizing. Feeling hopeless and worthless, a person with major depression may sleep and eat irregularly.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-418" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border: 0px;" title="depression" src="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/depression1-150x145.jpg" alt="depression" width="150" height="145" />Right now, 20 million Americans are in the midst of an episode of <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/aftrack.asp?afid=281922" target="_blank">depression</a>.</p>
<p>Some have the incapacitating symptoms of what doctors call major depression. These symptoms usually require professional attention because they are very severe and demoralizing. Feeling hopeless and worthless, a person with major depression may sleep and eat irregularly.</p>
<p>In the throes of <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/aftrack.asp?afid=281922" target="_blank">severe depression</a>, it is hard to concentrate, make decisions, or find the energy to do much of anything. Thoughts of suicide are common.</p>
<p>Depression primarily refers to a state of mind that is purely negative, with an inclination to insufficiency and a hopeless lack of interest to do things.</p>
<p>If someone has a minor depression, however, the problem is more manageable. Experts say that people who have some minor depression will feel lousy about themselves and lousy about their lives, but they are managing to function at a high level.</p>
<p>In fact, some of the newfound ways of battling the blues are related to what you do as well as what you feel. Here are some ways that you can prepare your body to help prevent minor depression:</p>
<p><strong>1. Put some spring in your step</strong></p>
<p>Regular exercise may be the most powerful natural antidepressant available. It is advisable that you take a brisk walk. Exercise helps generate the release of brain chemicals called endorphins. When endorphin levels are low, depression occurs. Exercise also oxygenates the brain, keeping it healthy.</p>
<p>How much should you exercise? Thirty minutes, five or six days a week, at moderate intensity is a nice level to aim for to help prevent the brain imbalances that can make you vulnerable to depression.</p>
<p><strong>2. Nourish your brain</strong></p>
<p>Virtually any nutrient deficiency can result in impaired mental function, including depression. To help <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/aftrack.asp?afid=281922" target="_blank">prevent depression</a>, health experts recommend that people should take high-potency multivitamins or mineral supplement. This will supply the brain with enough nutrients in order to keep it properly functioning and, thus, avoid some mental disorders such as depression.</p>
<p><strong>3. Get enough sleep</strong></p>
<p>Getting less than eight hours of sleep, night after night, may lower levels of the brain chemical known as serotonin, which can make you more prone to depression. To sleep well, health practitioners recommend going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, including weekends.</p>
<p>Relax before bedtime, perhaps with a hot bath. And for the soundest sleep, keep your bedroom quiet and dark.</p>
<p><strong>4. Consider some alternate explanations</strong></p>
<p>Your emotions, positive or negative, are created not by situations themselves, but by the way you interpret those situations.  A very common situation can turn into an extreme negative situation unless you take mental steps to prevent it.</p>
<p>Suppose a friend is going to pick you up so that the two of you can go somewhere and do something fun together. Now, suppose that time passes, and your friend does not arrive. Your feelings change, quite literally, from moment to moment. If at first you think of your friend as being insensitive and irresponsible, you will find yourself feeling angry at him. If you think that perhaps something bad has happened to him, you will naturally become concerned. If you think that this person does not care much about you and that is why he is late, you feel rejected, lonely, even depressed.</p>
<p>Although the situation does not change, and your friend is still delayed, you can have a whole range of feelings depending on how you interpret that event.</p>
<p>For this reason, experts contend that situations are usually ambiguous, open to any interpretation. Hence, your interpretation helps create your feelings about the situation. Positive interpretations lead to good feelings and enjoyment; negative interpretations lead to bad feelings and depression. To stay on the positive side, try to look for positive interpretations.</p>
<p>Indeed, <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/aftrack.asp?afid=281922" target="_blank">depression</a> can be very destructive if neglected. Hence, the best way to stop the development of depression is to always put a bright light on the blues and create a positive outlook in life.</p>
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		<title>Menu for an Upbeat Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 19:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just like set menus from restaurants where different kinds of foods are served &#8211; from appetizers, to main dishes, to desserts &#8211; life also has its menu for an upbeat life. Different people have their own individual menu that makes them cheerful and optimistic. Find out what they are; they may help to keep your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-421" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="upbeat life" src="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/upbeat-life-150x150.jpg" alt="upbeat life" width="150" height="150" />Just like set menus from restaurants where different kinds of foods are served &#8211; from appetizers, to main dishes, to desserts &#8211; life also has its menu for an upbeat life. Different people have their own individual menu that makes them cheerful and optimistic. Find out what they are; they may help to keep your life meaningful, enjoyable, inspiring, and interesting. Consider the following:</p>
<p>Help the needy, the poor, the handicapped, the ailing, the broken-hearted, the homeless, the lost, and the environment. The list can go on. When you help the needy &#8211; in services, monetary value, or other forms (lending a shoulder to cry on or an understanding ear to listen to other people&#8217;s problems) &#8211; the returns are ten folds over. However, don&#8217;t expect anything in return. Just the contentment you experience in your heart is an incomparably satisfying feeling. Giving something wholeheartedly without expecting anything in return is divine. Imagine yourself as the person on the receiving end. You can&#8217;t wait to return the favor once you get the opportunity to do so.</p>
<p>Another way to enjoy life is to listen to music. Play your good old favorite songs and sing along. Sing your best. Sing carelessly or out of tune &#8211; whatever it takes to make your heart contented and whatever makes you laugh. Just hum the tune if you don&#8217;t remember the words. Sing until you laugh heartily. The idea is to cheer up. Do this in private with your close friends or relatives though. You don&#8217;t want to annoy your neighbors.</p>
<p>The sound of nature is also music. The sound of river flowing, the gust of wind on a tree branch, waves on the seashore, and birds chirping are as natural as nature can be, and the way music should be. The sound of nature can make you optimistic because it is a beautiful and serene sound.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s face reality. Life has its share of troubles, disasters, and misfortunes. Bad news exists and it disturbs the mind. Totally ignoring it may not always be the answer to approach life in a realistic manner. However, you can always find ways to avoid being affected by it to maintain the dominance of life&#8217;s beauty.</p>
<p>A party without humor and laughter is a dull one. The same is true in real life. Fill your life with lots of humor and laughter to keep it upbeat. The more spontaneous a humorous situation is, the more natural it is, and the better it can liven up your spirits.</p>
<p>Look at the lessons that can be derived from misfortunes. Mistakes allow you to learn and see opportunities hidden behind adversities. Always find meaning from every event in your life. See through the shell game and value every lesson that you learn.</p>
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		<title>Take It Easy and Enjoy Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can you remember your childhood days? During those times, nothing yet seemed complicated. All we had to think about were crayons, cookies, or Santa Claus. We didn&#8217;t care about the things we didn&#8217;t know because we were just too oblivious of the things that might bother us.
But as we grow older, we get anxious with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-424" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="be happy" src="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/be-happy1-150x128.jpg" alt="be happy" width="150" height="128" />Can you remember your childhood days? During those times, nothing yet seemed complicated. All we had to think about were crayons, cookies, or Santa Claus. We didn&#8217;t care about the things we didn&#8217;t know because we were just too oblivious of the things that might bother us.</p>
<p>But as we grow older, we get anxious with the things that surround us. Life and death, loving and parting, success and failure, to name a few. We find that almost everyday, we are obliged to be concerned about people or events.</p>
<p>Nevertheless, always keep this in mind to not  take things as if they are responsible for the way you feel. Events or situations do not trouble you. How you look at them does.</p>
<p>If you miss those carefree days, you just have to look back at how you used to view things then, and you will know what to do now. Here&#8217;s a guide to make sure you won&#8217;t lose your way:</p>
<p>Cherish the simple things: Trust in the power of a smile or laughter, a kiss or a hug. Believe in kindness, honesty, dreams, and imagination. Living positively is the first step to becoming happy.</p>
<p>Loosen up. Laugh at your mistakes. You might remember the time when you were delivering your speech and your mind went completely blank right in the middle of delivering it. It&#8217;s embarrassing. But most likely, your audience will forget about it in a day or two. We all mess up occasionally. The good thing is that people tend to forget such situations.</p>
<p>Surround yourself with what you love. Get a pet. Retain film moments as keepsakes. Keep away from those that drag you down. If that high-paying job makes you sulk at the thought of having to go to work, find a job you like first before quitting. If some people force you to comply even if you think of doing otherwise, stay away from their company.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t put off. Go on that trip. Get your Masters. You&#8217;ll never know the extent of your life. Do something, while you can.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t push yourself too hard trying to please everyone. You just can&#8217;t. And it never seems to be worth it anyway. When you want to make somebody&#8217;s day, start with your loved ones.</p>
<p>Keep fit. Be that attractive person you always picture yourself to be. Cherish your health. It&#8217;s the best way of showing you are putting your best face forward.</p>
<p>Do not assume. Don&#8217;t fret about forgetting your speech before you actually do it. Don&#8217;t worry about not getting the job you want because you might mess up at the interview. Don&#8217;t end up expecting only the worst to happen.</p>
<p>Alter your way of thinking. When you&#8217;re being ridiculed, criticized about your family background, or condemned for past mistakes, put on deaf ears. Don&#8217;t believe everything you hear. You know yourself better than everybody else does. Never wallow in self-pity.</p>
<p>Remember: Don&#8217;t get upset over things just because it&#8217;s how most people would react when faced with the same situation. When you find yourself being negative angry, down, jealous, etc.  you also unknowingly drain your energy and enthusiasm. You just have to try keeping these negative feelings in the low, because giving in to these emotions would sometimes make you unreasonable, and you might end up making bad decisions.</p>
<p>Happiness is always in your grasp. You can attain it, as long as you reach for it.</p>
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		<title>Why Should You Set Goals?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:59:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wonder why some people could not even achieve an inch of what they dream of becoming? It is because of pure dreaming, and the lack of setting goals for achieving their dreams.
Setting goals is a very significant part of success and positive accomplishments. It is like scaling a 20 feet building and marking early on what [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-428 alignright" title="goal_setting" src="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/goal_setting2-137x150.jpg" alt="goal_setting" width="137" height="150" />Wonder why some people could not even achieve an inch of what they dream of becoming? It is because of pure dreaming, and the lack of <a href="http://www.thinkrightnow.com/cmd.asp?af=281922" target="_blank">setting goals</a> for achieving their dreams.</p>
<p>Setting goals is a very significant part of success and positive accomplishments. It is like scaling a 20 feet building and marking early on what feet you would like to reach at this specific period.</p>
<p>People who set goals literally create a map of their target achievements in life, marking where they should begin, where to pause, where to delve a bit, and where and when to stop. Once this map is created, it allows the map drawer to check where he is in the scheme of things and whether or not he is making some achievements that will take him closer to his goals.</p>
<p>By setting goals, people will know how they are doing and what they should be doing to achieve their targets or dreams in life. They will know if they can relax or if they have to double their efforts when they are falling short of what is expected of them.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thinkrightnow.com/cmd.asp?af=281922" target="_blank">Goal setting</a> means a person is proactive in dealing with challenges that may affect his plans. Being proactive means one is able to outline possible difficulties that may occur as well as the solutions to these difficulties. By doing this, a person is not easily scared or defeated when challenges occur because he has already prepared for them. He knows they can happen and he has prepared a solution or strategy when that time comes.</p>
<p>Setting goals will enable people to track their progress in whatever endeavor they have set out to do. It will help people become more confident in themselves and more motivated to achieve their plans.</p>
<p>However, goal setting is not enough, as this should be accompanied by a positive outlook and self-discipline. A person may have a blueprint of where he wants to go, but if he does not have the necessary discipline to carry out the plan, then nothing will come out of it.</p>
<p>To be successful in goal setting, the goals that one has set for himself should be realistic and based on his capabilities, as well as selected and important external factors. Being too ambitious in setting up goals can make the goals unrealistic and difficult to achieve. However, do not set goals that are too low because this might discourage one&#8217;s vision instead of achieving it.</p>
<p>It is also necessary that the person setting the blueprint for his direction should also include a time frame within which the goal will be achieved. This way, he is able to determine if he has to fast track his strategies or to slow down a bit. Goal setting will also help a person check if he is performing within his plans or if he is doing things towards the achievement of his plans.</p>
<p>Once you have achieved something, even a little of what you hoped to achieve, then you should always give yourself a pat in the back to keep you motivated. But do not be too complacent with any little achievement, as this may cause you to backslide.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thinkrightnow.com/cmd.asp?af=281922" target="_blank">Setting goals</a> can be used in any aspect of one&#8217;s life &#8211; from one&#8217;s personal or family life, to his career and finances.  Goal setting can be as simple as setting a target weight when you wish to lose pounds or something big, like earning your first million.</p>
<p>When setting goals, it is always important to set standards that would suit your present situation, your capabilities, and other factors that may influence the achievement of your goal.</p>
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		<title>Reduce Stress and Be Happy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 17:45:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Studies show that too much stress is bad for the health. A little stress is actually good, as it could serve to help you function at your best. However, stress that seems a little too much could take a physical, as well as mental toll to your body. Stress should be managed in order for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Studies show that too much <a href="http://awaywithpanicattacks.com/" target="_blank">stress</a> is bad for the health. A little stress is actually good, as it could serve to help you function at your best. However, stress that seems a little too much could take a physical, as well as mental toll to your body. Stress should be managed in order for depression or anxiety to be prevented.</p>
<p>So how should you do it then? The following are tips and advice to help manage stress.</p>
<p><strong>Write it out, schedule it out.</strong></p>
<p>It is best to write down everything that seems to be overwhelming. You will find a things-to-do-list much easier to manage than having errands all crumpled up in your head. Writing down the tasks, and putting a specific schedule and time to do them, helps anyone manage activities one chunk at a time. Crossing out an activity that has already been accomplished is very rewarding and could actually help you feel more relaxed when doing the other tasks at hand.</p>
<p><strong>One at a time works.</strong></p>
<p>Focus and put all your attention specifically on one task at one time. It does not help to feel panicky about the other undone or to-do tasks. Thinking about them only adds unnecessary stress and could even hamper in doing the task you are attempting to accomplish at present.</p>
<p><strong>Relax and take it slow.</strong></p>
<p>At least, try not to expend too much energy on activities that are currently not priorities.</p>
<p><strong>Delegate, delegate, delegate.</strong></p>
<p>You need not do everything all at once, and you need not do everything on your own. Ask for help or pay for help. When there is a feeling of being overwhelmed that is cropping up, hire someone to mow the lawn or get a sitter for your children. The feeling of being pressed to finish something on time will somehow be eliminated if tasks are delegated. It takes a load off unnecessary worry and <a href="http://awaywithpanicattacks.com/" target="_blank">anxiety</a>. Moreover, it is easier checking up on how things are than worrying yourself sick doing everything on your own, all at once.</p>
<p><strong>Give yourself a reward.</strong></p>
<p>You deserve it. Acknowledging your accomplishments, no matter how big or small, is an effort that is necessary before getting on to the next tasks and activities. It reduces stress and could even make you happier in doing the next task.</p>
<p><strong>Give yourself a break.</strong></p>
<p>You need it to be more productive. A ten to fifteen minute break during your work is necessary. Go visit a cafe nearby, take a quick brisk walk, or do anything to put your mind off work, at least for a while. This is necessary to refresh and recharge. Believe it or not, you can also stay in your work and sit with your eyes closed as you visualize a peaceful landscape or a relaxing scene. This frees the stress from your muscles and your mind.</p>
<p><a href="http://selfgrowthsecrets.com/relaxation/your-recommended-daily-allowance-for-relaxation/" target="_blank">Relax</a> and be cool. Doing so makes you healthier, happier, and a lot more productive.</p>
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		<title>Get Rid of Procrastination, Now!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you put off your work for later, only to find your deadlines steadily creeping in? Then you, my friend, are one of the millions of people afflicted by procrastination. Procrastination is the biggest reason for loss of productivity and late output. Though many would not admit it, they would benefit greatly if they start [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you put off your work for later, only to find your deadlines steadily creeping in? Then you, my friend, are one of the millions of people afflicted by procrastination. Procrastination is the biggest reason for loss of productivity and late output. Though many would not admit it, they would benefit greatly if they start their work on time.</p>
<p>For many people, putting off their work for later is more habit than desire. It can be so hard to get into a groove where starting your tasks in a timely fashion is a priority; especially if the consequences for being late are things that one can probably bear.</p>
<p>If you are one of these people, yet you desire to shake off your propensity for procrastination, then you have come to the right place. Here are a few tips to help you overcome this dilemma and become a more productive and reliable person.</p>
<p>1. <strong>Set schedules</strong> - It is very important that you have a list of activities to accomplish each day. This will help you realistically budget your time and resources. One of things people do in regards to performing their tasks is to put off their work because they feel like there is so much time left. A journal, organizer, or calendar of events will help you plan and schedule your task so that you can start them promptly and finish them on time.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Save the Vacation for Later</strong> - Many people put their work off for later saying, I&#8217;ll just have a little fun then buckle down to work later. While it may be true that they may have more than enough time to accomplish their tasks, it would be better if they finished their work first and relax afterwards.</p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t relaxation be sweeter if it were after completion of a task? If you choose to lay back and relax before doing your tasks, you will be more prone to burnout and will have nothing exciting left to look forward to after accomplishing a task. It is always better to have slack period AFTER a job than before one. This is business suicide if you are heading towards a deadline.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Never Underestimate Your Tasks</strong> - Sometimes procrastination sets in because people underestimate the resources, difficulty, and time spent for a particular task. They will usually say, It&#8217;s just mowing the lawn, it&#8217;s easy; I could do it in a jiffy. The problem is, no matter how trivial the task, it still takes time and resources to accomplish. If you underestimate a task, you will most likely set too little time to do it and schedule it too close to its deadline.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Don&#8217;t Allow Yourself to Get Comfortable Doing Nothing</strong> - It would definitely help if you kept a subconscious alarm whenever you are doing nothing. Get this alarm to remind you of things that may need to be done. This will help you foster the notion that jobs accomplished now means more time for relaxation later. However, even if this is the case, do not forget to put ample time in for rest and to remove all thoughts of troubles before hitting the sack. The trick here, however, is not to overdo your rest. There is a difference between resting and idling. Always set the right amount of time for rest and stick to that schedule.</p>
<p>Following the tips above will make a difference in ending procrastination for good.</p>
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		<title>How To Determine What You Want In Life</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you really want in life?
Most people never truly discover what they want in life.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you really want in life?</p>
<p>Most people never truly discover what they want in life.</p>
<p>Most people spend the best years of their lives watching television or doing things they dislike. An author described humanity by saying, most people die at twenty and are buried at eighty. Are you one of the living zombies?</p>
<p>What do you really want in life?</p>
<p>Some people struggle in answering such question. When asked what they want or what their goals in life are, many are unsure. They dillydally in their decision, hardly giving any thought about what they want in life. People without definite goals are letting time pass them by. Are you one of these people?</p>
<p>If you are undecided about what you want out of life, do not worry.  There are many ways of discovering your purpose in life.</p>
<p>To discover what you want in life, try looking deep into your heart. Oftentimes, people are ruled by logic. People live by what they think they should be or by what others like them to be. The discovery process is the perfect time to listen to your heart. What your heart desires comes from the whispers of your authentic self. Your authentic self is the real you. </p>
<p>Listen to your heart to be able to listen to your authentic self. What your heart says usually feels right. What your heart desires is what you usually love to do and this represents your passion. Anything done with passion is like play where the task is accomplished without hesitation. You pour out your very best and feel no pressure or resistance.</p>
<p>You will totally enjoy doing things that are your passion. Setbacks, difficulties, and obstacles will make it more challenging, but should not deter you from pursuing your goals. Naturally, there may be barriers that may prevent you from reaching your goal, but your heart&#8217;s desire will find ways to overcome these barriers so that you may ultimately get what you want in life. Remember this: the universe supports people who are pursuing their passion and those who are pursuing their destiny.</p>
<p>However, this does not mean that you don&#8217;t use your head. People are born with both the mind and heart. Your duty is to live your best life and be in harmony with your mind and heart. The poet Rumi wisely said, live completely in the head and you cannot feel the breath and rhythm of life. Live completely in the heart and you may find yourself acting like a love-struck fool with poor judgment and discipline&#8221;. It&#8217;s all a fine balance &#8211; the head and heart must forge a lifetime partnership if one wants to live a beautiful life. </p>
<p>Listen to your instinct. Part of human nature is the mysterious and spontaneous reaction on things. Often times, these are called instincts. Your authentic self communicates with you and guides you via instincts. Instincts are those gentle nudges that urge you to act and follow a certain path. Your role then is to listen attentively.</p>
<p>Often times, we listen to what others say and allow them to run our lives. Parents often do this to their children. We come from a family of doctors, so my son must also be a doctor. How often do we hear this from parents who have good intentions for their children? Parents unconsciously block the true expression of their child&#8217;s real self and calling. Friends and critics will discourage you and point out the impossibility of your dream. Before heeding their advice, evaluate the accomplishments of the critics. Did they achieve theirs dreams? Do they dream big at all?</p>
<p>Remember, it is your destiny that is in line, not theirs. It doesn&#8217;t mean, though, that you will not listen to what other people say. Hear them out just the same. But the final decision should be yours.</p>
<p>There is only one thing to remember: Every person, to live truly and greatly, must define how he wants to live and what his brightest life will look like. Listen to your instincts and follow your heart&#8217;s desire. You will never go wrong.</p>
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